**In C.S. Lewis’s *The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe*, Aslan tells Lucy, *“Things never happen the same way twice.”*** 

It’s a good reminder that life brings changes. They’re unavoidable, but how we choose to meet them is up to us. We can look to *[The Chronicles of Narnia](https://www.cslewis.com/us/books/?collection=narnia&id=745173)* for insights on managing life’s changes.

Most of us are familiar with C.S. Lewis's profound allegory for the life of Christ. Aslan the Lion represents Christ, of course. In the above quote, Aslan comforts little Lucy Pevensie about the changes and challenges she and her siblings are facing.

**The Inevitability of Change**

We face many changes as well, even just through the calendar year. For example, summer is a time when we look ahead to the school year. Even if we no longer have kids in school, we often make plans that mirror an August-to-May school calendar.

Whether you have a child entering kindergarten or a rising senior anticipating graduation, you’re planning a move, or dealing with aging parents, financial decisions are embedded in every life transition. Our friend [Mitch Anthony](https://www.mitchanthony.com/about/) likes to say, *“Money goes into motion when life goes into transition.”* It’s easy to remember, but often hard to manage.

**Five Ways to Meet and Manage Change**

- **Pray for wisdom.**  New seasons require new wisdom. There are two ways to learn in a new season: through pain or wisdom.  We probably all remember lessons learned through the painful consequences of a poor decision in our teenage years.  We discovered that pain is a costly way to learn. So let’s choose wisdom!
- **Seek godly counsel.** For example, if your oldest child is going to enter college this fall, what can you learn from other parents who have college graduates? What do they wish they had done differently? What did they do well that they would repeat? 
- **Determine financial decisions** that will accompany this life transition. Staying with the college student example, you’ve probably planned for paying basic college expenses, but have you discussed what living expenses your child will be responsible for? Will they have a part-time job? Will you provide a monthly stipend (I like to call it that!) for them to manage? Bottom line: What will you provide, and what do you expect them to provide?
- **Decide ahead of time** what you will do when— or if— the child calls home to say they are out of money. Do you have an emergency fund ready for that?
- **Communicate your financial decisions** now before the transition is complete. When it’s a child going to college or some other life transition, be sure that you’ve clearly communicated what they are responsible for. If it’s a move, have you clearly communicated with the realtor? The more we communicate our financial decisions, the more accountability we have to stick with them in the midst of life's transitions.

**Stewardship in Every Season**

I’ve found that all five of these strategies are essential for staying grounded during transitions. Whether it’s welcoming a new child into your home, preparing financially for a child going off to college, or moving to a new location, taking the time now to lay the foundation will save a lot of stress later on.

And when we really stop to think about it, planning ahead isn’t just a practical choice. As followers of Christ, we’re called to be good stewards of everything He’s entrusted to us—our time, our money, our opportunities. 

**Transitions don’t come the same way twice (as Aslan points out!)—but the God who walks with us through each season never changes. So when we prepare now—with prayer, purpose, and faith—we’re not just getting ready for what’s coming. We’re taking an act of trust in our unchanging God.**

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This is a good reminder that life brings changes. They’re unavoidable, but how we choose to meet them is up to us.

Planning for What’s Next: Faithful Stewardship in Seasons of Change

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**Up until you said, “I do,” you probably didn’t have too many conversations about money with your future spouse. You are not alone. Many couples enter into marriage without ever discussing finances. Prior to marriage, the way you handled and viewed money didn’t directly impact your spouse.**


But now you are married. And everything is different.

Some couples do well with the shift, but there are many couples that struggle. Whether recently married or celebrating a thirtieth anniversary, what are some common mistakes couples make, and how can you avoid them? Let’s consider five missteps.


**1. Assuming both has the same money personality.**


We often act like our spouse has, or should have, similar thoughts and reactions toward money as our own. But this is not often the case. Your natural personality, combined with your past money experiences, shaped your own money personality. And your spouse’s too.

When we assume similar money personalities, we get frustrated with our spouse and their money preferences and decision-making. However, if we recognize that their money personality is different from are own, we can develop empathy. And when we start with empathy, arguments are diffused before they ever start.

*[The Marriage Challenge](https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Challenge-Finance-Married-Couples/dp/1535912383/ref=sr_1_7?dchild=1&keywords=art+rainer&qid=1620305003&sr=8-7) *identifies four money  personalities—Spender, Saver, Investor, and Ignorer. All have their strengths and weaknesses. Grab some coffee and learn your spouse’s money personality. Understanding their money personality will help you to better understand their perspective and give you empathy.


**2. Dream separate dreams.**


Imagine this scenario: It is the first day of vacation. You and your spouse get into the car. The engine starts, but there is a problem. You never discussed the destination. You like the beach so you start driving toward the beach. But your spouse want to go to the mountains. What happens?  Probably, an argument. But such a scenario is unlikely, right?

We would never start on such a journey without first discussing and agreeing upon the destination. Yet, we do this all the time with our finances. When couples chase different financial goals, they individually make financial decisions that may injure the ability to reach one of the goals. And that’s frustrating.

Sit down with your spouse and dream together. Agree upon the financial goals you desire to achieve. Stay on the same page throughout your financial journey.


**3. Make separate money decisions.**


Agreed upon dreams are important. But agreed upon dreams are worthless without agreed upon actions and guidelines.

God’s design for marriage includes oneness—two previously separate units unite as one. Unfortunately, many couples decide to limit their oneness when it comes to their finances. The terms *my* and *your* are used in money conversations. *My*money. *Your* money. When this happens, it’s no surprise that decisions about money remain separate instead of united.

Making money decisions without the input of your spouse can lead to relational stress and an inability to reach financial goals. Managing money tends to feel more chaotic than structured, more frustrating than heartening. Achieving financial goals happens more easily when couples make money decisions together, when *my* and *your* are replaced with *our*.

As a couple, make financial decisions together. Agree upon the actions, the day-to-day decisions, and guidelines that need to take place in order to achieve your financial dreams.


**4. Not having a budget.**


If you underestimate the power of a budget, you are not alone. Many couples do. But they also miss out on a strategic tool for financial health.

Your budget is your plan. Your budget provides a guide for you to follow. Your budget helps you strategize how to give generously, save wisely, and live appropriately. It is helps you turn dreams into reality.

Set up a regular time to create and review your budget. Meet, at least, monthly. It doesn’t have to take a ton of time, especially when you are simply reviewing the budget. Make achieving goals the primary focus on the conversation. This will help you consider the big picture, even when discussing the details of your financial picture.


**5. Putting kids first.**


I know. You love your kids. You would do anything for your kids. And while this desire is good, the practice of always placing your kids first can have negative financial and marital ramifications.

Frequently, parents will sacrifice their retirement savings to put their children through college. But this understandable desire to sacrifice hurts both the parents and their children. College expenses may be covered, but the parents’ retirement is not. And when parents find themselves with little retirement, they often require the financial support of their children. Their gift becomes a future burden.

Good intentions can result in bad finances. From a financial standpoint, one of the best ways to take care of your children is to take care of yourself. Unnecessarily eroding your current and future financial health may place a future financial burden on your children. Love your children by taking care of your finances.

Money doesn’t have to wreak havoc on a marriage. If fact, it can bring about unity. *[The Marriage Challenge: A Finance Guide for Married Couples](https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Challenge-Finance-Married-Couples/dp/1535912383/ref=sr_1_7?dchild=1&keywords=art+rainer&qid=1620305003&sr=8-7)* take couples on a journey to discovering God’s design for their marriage and their money.

**Let your marriage and how you care for your finances be characterized by oneness. Get on the same financial page, and avoid these common mistakes. Your finances and your marriage will benefit from it.**

You were meant for more. Your money was meant for more. You and your money are meant for an exciting, adventurous, and satisfying purpose. You were designed to live and give generously. And deep inside you know this and want this.

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__Lotteries and gambling of all types are sweeping our country. Internet gambling is exploding. Each year one in four Americans gambles at a casino. The average church member gives $20 a year to international missions while the average person gambles $1,174 annually.__

Sadly, more than 6 million Americans are addicted to gambling, with consequences that are heartbreaking for their loved ones. Although the Bible does not specifically prohibit gambling, its *get-rich-quick* motivation violates the steady plodding principle. *“Steady plodding brings prosperity, hasty speculation brings poverty”* (Proverbs 21:5).

__In my opinion, we should *never* participate in gambling or lotteries—even for entertainment and even for one penny. We should not expose ourselves to the risk of becoming compulsive gamblers, nor should we support an industry that enslaves so many__

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*“He who has ears, let him hear.”* - Matthew 13:9

**Those were Jesus’ closing words after telling the Parable of the Sower, a story that invites us to listen carefully, not just with our ears, but with our hearts. That story can reveal a lot about the heart behind our finances, especially the warning about *“the deceitfulness of riches.”***

**The Story Behind the Soil**

The Parable appears in Matthew 13, Mark 4, and Luke 8. It begins with a farmer scattering seed, which falls on four types of soil. Jesus later explains that the seed is the Word of God, and the soils represent different heart conditions. Some hearts are hard, others shallow. Some are fertile and ready, but one soil in particular should draw our attention: where the seed fell among thorns.

In Matthew 13:22, Jesus says, *“As for what was sown among thorns, this is the one who hears the word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word, and it proves unfruitful.”* What does He mean?

First, Jesus points to *"the cares of the world"*, the daily anxieties and distractions that can crowd out our trust in God. Then, He adds *“the deceitfulness of riches.”* It’s not wealth itself that’s the issue. It’s the lie wealth tells: that more money will bring more peace, that possessions equal security, and that success means significance.

The Bible consistently warns us about that lie. Proverbs 11:28 says, *“Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf.”* And Paul reminds Timothy in 1 Timothy 6:17, *“Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God.”*

**The Illusion of Control**

Wealth deceives us by offering the illusion of control and independence. It tempts us to believe we’re self-sufficient. And when we buy that lie, we slowly stop depending on God. Like thorns in a garden, worldly cares and the lure of wealth take root in our hearts, slowly crowding out our affection for God. The space once reserved for trust and obedience becomes overrun with distraction and self-reliance.

It’s like C.S. Lewis put it: *“Prosperity knits a man to the world. He feels that he is 'finding his place in it,' while really it is finding its place in him.”*

You might be saving diligently, investing wisely, and even giving regularly. But if you’re trusting in your portfolio more than God’s promises or if your finances have become a source of anxiety, then it may be time to do a heart check. What kind of soil are you cultivating?

When unexpected expenses hit, what comes first, prayer or panic? When you think about the future, is your hope grounded in your retirement account or in the One who holds all things together?

Jesus said the seed among thorns becomes *“unfruitful.”* The Word doesn’t lose its power, but when wealth and worry take over our hearts, we stop responding to it. Outwardly, we may look faithful, but inwardly, our love for Him is being choked out. 

**Cultivating Good Soil**

So, how do we respond?

Jesus points to the solution just a few verses later. In Matthew 13:23, He says the good soil is the one who *“hears the word and understands it; he indeed bears fruit and yields.”* But receiving God’s Word deeply isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong process of cultivating the soil of our hearts. It means creating space where God’s truth can take root, thrive, and grow, without being overtaken by competing desires. That’s how fruitfulness begins and continues.

Here are three simple practices to help you cultivate “good soil” in your finances:

**1. Prioritize your giving.** Start with generosity, not as an afterthought, but as an act of worship. Giving reminds us that money is not our master and that we trust God to provide for us.

**2. Check your emotional temperature.** If your peace rises and falls with your financial circumstances, that’s a signal to lean into God’s Word more than your wallet.

**3. Rethink your financial goals.** Ask yourself: *What am I building? And why?* Is your financial plan aligned with Kingdom purposes, or is it just chasing comfort or status?

As Dallas Willard said, *“The main thing God gets out of your life is the person you become.”* That includes how you handle money. Generosity, peace, and contentment are fruits of a life rooted in Christ, not one choked out by wealth.

Remember that the condition of your heart matters more than the condition of your accounts. If you want to be fruitful in your finances and faithful in your walk with God, start by asking: What am I trusting in? Let the answer lead you back to Christ, because only in Him will your life bear lasting fruit.

It’s the lie wealth tells: that more money will bring more peace, that possessions equal security, and that success means significance.

What Kind of Soil Are You Cultivating?

***“Then I saw that all toil and all skill in work come from a man’s envy of his neighbor. This also is vanity and a striving after wind.”*  Ecclesiastes 4:4**

Ecclesiastes shows us how even good work can go wrong when driven by envy. What starts as diligence can quickly become a pursuit of status and approval that leaves us empty. The good news is that this treasured book also shows that God invites us into something much greater.

[The Bible Project](https://bibleproject.com/) says Ecclesiastes *“targets all the ways we try to build meaning and purpose in life apart from God.”* It gives voice to the Preacher, who carefully exposes the emptiness of paths like pleasure, wealth, and status. Recently, we’ve looked at the idols of [pleasure](https://www.faithfi.com/faithfi/tearing-down-the-idol-of-pleasure-7842) and [accumulation](https://www.faithfi.com/faithfi/the-gift-of-perspective-7827). Now we’ll turn to the idol of status.

This one can be harder to spot. The line between excellence and envy is thin. Ecclesiastes 4:4 says, “Then I saw that all toil and all skill in work come from a man’s envy of his neighbor.” That’s a striking thought. Our motivation may not be love of the work or calling—it’s often the quiet urge to compete. To keep up. To be seen.

**The Whisper of Status**

That’s what status does. It whispers, *You’re not enough—unless others notice you.* And without realizing it, our careers, spending, and even our generosity, can become ways of proving our worth.

“Keeping up with the Joneses” isn’t just a saying—it’s a way of life for many. We compare houses, vacations, schools, and the pressure to match others can lead to debt, burnout, and dissatisfaction with what God has already provided.

And in our digital age, the pressure’s amplified. Social media showcases only the highlight reel, not the debt, exhaustion, or stress that often accompany it. But we still scroll and wonder, *Why not me?*

Ecclesiastes answers that longing with honesty. In verse 8, the Preacher describes someone who works tirelessly, builds wealth, but has no one to share it with: *“There is no end to all his toil, and his eyes are never satisfied with riches…”* It’s a picture of success without joy. Activity without peace. A full schedule, but an empty soul.

**A Better Way Forward**

Then, however, he offers a better way. In verse 6, we read: “Better is a handful of quietness than two hands full of toil and a striving after wind.” In other words, it’s better to have less with peace than more with anxiety. That’s not laziness—it’s wisdom. A life lived with margin, grounded in God’s provision.

This is the invitation Ecclesiastes extends: not to give up on excellence, but to anchor it in the right place. When our work flows from a love for God and a desire to serve others, it becomes a blessing, not a burden. It becomes worship.

**From Striving to Rest**

We don’t need applause—we need peace. And in Christ, we already have it. His approval is not based on performance. It’s based on grace. That frees us from striving to be seen and lets us rest in being known.

Maybe that’s where you are—tired, overextended, wondering what you’re chasing. Ecclesiastes invites you to step off the treadmill of comparison. You don’t have to strive for identity. You already have it in Jesus.

We often see examples of this. A professional sacrifices evenings and weekends to climb the corporate ladder, only to feel lonely at the top. A family maxes out their budget to project an image, while tension quietly builds at home. These aren’t just stories—they’re warnings. And they echo Ecclesiastes’ caution about what we’re trading in our pursuit of more.

Sometimes this isn’t just about envy. It’s about fear—fear of being unseen, of being left behind. So we push harder, hoping success will quiet that fear. But only God can give the peace we’re looking for.

**Redefining Success**

Contentment doesn’t mean quitting. It means redefining success. It means anchoring your worth in something that lasts. When you stop striving in vain, your ambition gets reoriented. Your work becomes more joyful. Your giving becomes more meaningful.

So ask yourself today: *Who am I trying to impress? What am I really chasing?*

If your hands are full but your heart is empty, Ecclesiastes invites you to trade performance for peace. True success isn’t about being noticed or admired—it’s about being faithful with what God has given you. And your worth? It’s not something you have to earn or achieve. In Christ, you have nothing to prove because in Him, you are deeply loved, fully known, and eternally valued.

**Dig Deeper**

And if you want to dig deeper into these themes, we’ve created a new study just for you. It’s called *Wisdom Over Wealth*, and it explores what Scripture—especially the book of Ecclesiastes—has to say about money, work, and living for what really matters.

And if you want to dig deeper into these themes, we’ve created a new study just for you. It’s called *[Wisdom Over Wealth](https://www.faithfi.com/wisdom)*, and it explores what Scripture—especially the book of Ecclesiastes—has to say about money, work, and living for what really matters.

If your hands are full but your heart is empty, Ecclesiastes invites you to trade performance for peace.

Success Without Joy: Why More Never Satisfies

***“All his days are full of sorrow, and his work is a vexation. Even in the night his heart does not rest. This also is vanity.”* — *Ecclesiastes 2:23***

That verse reveals a painful truth: even a productive life can feel empty when our work is driven by the wrong purpose. Wealth on its own doesn’t bring peace—often, it brings more pressure. But Scripture offers a better way.

**What’s Driving All the Effort?**

It’s easy to admire someone who plans wisely, saves consistently, and builds steadily over time. Our culture praises that kind of discipline as responsible and virtuous—and often, it is. But Ecclesiastes challenges us to ask: **What’s driving all that effort?**

*“I hated all my toil... seeing that I must leave it to the man who will come after me.”* — *Ecclesiastes 2:18*

The Preacher isn’t condemning hard work—he’s grieving that all he’s built will one day be handed off, possibly to someone who won’t value or steward it well.

**Success Without Peace**

That’s where sorrow begins—not in failure, but in success without peace.

The more we accumulate, the more we fear losing it. What promised security only multiplies anxiety. What a striking image—someone lying awake at night, not from failure, but from success. The more they possess, the more they worry.

This is the irony of accumulation: it convinces us that security is just one more achievement away, while quietly making us more anxious the more we gain.

Jesus echoes this same warning in Luke 12. He tells the parable of a rich man who reaped such a bountiful harvest that he decided to build bigger barns to store it all. His conclusion?

*“Take life easy—eat, drink, and be merry.”*

To the world, that sounds like winning. But Jesus calls him a fool. Why? Because that very night, his life would be demanded of him. Then comes the haunting question:

*“The things you have prepared, whose will they be?”*

**The Danger of an Entitled Heart**

What’s even more interesting is the context of that parable. Jesus responds in this manner to a man who asks Him to settle an inheritance dispute. This wasn’t someone who earned the wealth—he simply wanted his share, and maybe more.

Jesus’ warning is clear: a greedy heart isn’t the only danger. **An entitled heart is just as spiritually destructive.**

And that’s exactly what the Preacher feared in *Ecclesiastes*—wealth falling into the hands of someone who didn’t labor for it and may not know how to handle it wisely.

We see this all the time in real life. Many financial advisors and estate planners will tell you that inherited wealth, especially when passed down without spiritual or emotional maturity, can do more harm than good. It can fracture families, distort priorities, and erode purpose.

The problem isn’t money itself—it’s the absence of wisdom alongside it.

**Where True Peace Comes From**

That’s why this lesson matters. You can save well, build wealth, and still feel anxious and unsatisfied—not because you failed, but because you expected your efforts to give you what only God can: **peace, joy, and purpose.**

But here’s the good news—Ecclesiastes doesn’t leave us in despair.

*“To the one who pleases Him, God has given wisdom and knowledge and joy.”* — *Ecclesiastes 2:26*

The solution isn’t to stop working or saving. The solution is to stop worshiping our work.
 Stop defining success by the size of your bank account and start defining it by your faithfulness to the One who owns it all.

When we live as stewards instead of owners, the pressure lifts. We begin to see wealth not as a prize to secure our future, but as a tool to serve God’s Kingdom. Accumulation loses its grip, and generosity takes root. That’s when real joy begins.

So, ask yourself today:

- *Am I building bigger barns, or am I faithfully stewarding what God has already entrusted to me?*
- *Am I chasing peace through my possessions, or receiving it from the Prince of Peace Himself?*

Because in the end, **peace doesn’t come from what we’ve earned. It comes from who we trust.**

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Wealth on its own doesn’t bring peace—often, it brings more pressure. But Scripture offers a better way.

The Search for Satisfaction: When Pleasure Falls Short

__*“I said in my heart, ‘Come now, I will test you with pleasure; enjoy yourself.’ But behold, this also was vanity.”*  —Ecclesiastes 2:1__

That verse kicks off one of the boldest experiments in all of Scripture. The Preacher in the book of Ecclesiastes set out to discover whether pleasure could deliver lasting satisfaction. He pursued laughter, wine, work, wealth—every earthly delight you can imagine.

So what was his conclusion?

*“Behold, all was vanity and a striving after wind.”* —Ecclesiastes 1:14

Despite having unlimited resources and access to every pleasure imaginable, he found it all to be empty. And that’s a message our culture desperately needs to hear. Because today, we’re constantly bombarded with messages like “treat yourself,” “follow your heart,” and “do what makes you happy.”

__The Illusion of Fulfillment__

From the trips we plan to the gadgets we buy, the world tells us that joy is just one more experience or purchase away. But Ecclesiastes forces us to ask a harder question:

What if pleasure doesn’t lead where we think it does?

Imagine a bag of old receipts. Each one represents a moment that once brought excitement: a nice dinner, a new gadget, a spontaneous splurge. But now? They’re just scraps of paper. The feeling is gone. The thrill didn’t last. That’s exactly what the Preacher experienced—only on a far greater scale.

In the passage referenced in the beginning, the Preacher says: *“Come now, I will test you with pleasure,”* and test it he did. He pursued laughter and wine, built houses and planted vineyards. He created lush gardens, amassed wealth, hired singers, gathered servants, and surrounded himself with every earthly comfort—even concubines.

This wasn’t reckless living. This was a thoughtful, calculated test. He says, *“Whatever my eyes desired, I did not keep from them.”* In today’s terms, it would be like saying, *“If it looked fun, I bought it. If it felt good, I did it.”* He chased every high with purpose—and still came up empty.

__Why Pleasure Can’t Satisfy__

Why?

Because pleasure was never meant to carry the weight of our deepest longings. It promises fulfillment but delivers only a momentary escape. The author of Ecclesiastes says it’s like trying to hold smoke in your hands—real for a moment, then gone.

Now, most of us don’t live lavishly like this, much less have the ability to do so. But we do have our own versions. We grab a comfort snack. We scroll social media a little too long. We click “add to cart,” hoping the package will brighten our week. And for a moment, it might. But that moment fades. And the cycle starts again.

This reminds me of Jesus’ parable of the prodigal son. Here was a young man who took his inheritance and pursued a life of pleasure, only to end up broke and broken.

But think about this: the Preacher had everything the prodigal son wanted. He had wealth, freedom, and opportunity—yet he ended up just as empty.

Different stories. Same outcome.

__A Word of Warning—and Hope__

But here’s the grace in His story: we don’t have to repeat it. His experiment, his pain, his regret—it all serves as a warning. He turns around to tell us, *“There’s nothing here. Don’t waste your life chasing shadows.”*

That’s a gift. It frees us to reflect:

- What am I turning to when I feel tired, discouraged, or disconnected?
- What “quick fixes” do I reach for without thinking?
- And more importantly, what would it look like to seek joy in God instead?

That doesn’t mean we need to stop enjoying life. God is a generous Father who delights in giving good gifts. He created joy. But those gifts were never meant to replace Him.

When pleasure becomes the destination, we miss the Giver. We settle for the gift and forget the One who gives it.

So, the next time you reach for something to boost your mood, pause and ask:

- Is this about joy or escape?
- Is this feeding my soul or just distracting it?

Ecclesiastes doesn’t just warn us—it points us back to what matters most. It helps us dethrone the idol of pleasure and place our trust in Someone, not something. And that Someone will never fail.

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In C.S. Lewis’s The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, Aslan tells Lucy, “Things never happen the same way twice.” It’s a good reminder that life brings changes. They’re unavoidable, but how we choose to meet them is up to us. Sharon Epps joins us today with sage advice about preparing for life’s transitions.Sharon Epps is the President of <a href="https://kingdomadvisors.com/">Kingdom Advisors</a>, <a href="https://www.faithfi.com/">FaithFi</a>’s parent organization. Kingdom Advisors serves the broad Christian financial industry by educating and equipping professionals to integrate biblical wisdom and financial expertise.<h3>Lessons from Narnia</h3>C.S. Lewis’s Chronicles of Narnia holds a surprising amount of wisdom for real life. In one poignant scene, Aslan comforts Lucy Pevensie about the changes she and her siblings are facing. “Things never happen the same way twice,” Aslan tells her. Change is constant, and each new season requires fresh wisdom. Even when we’re no longer in school, the rhythms of August to May still shape our lives and planning.<h3>When Life Goes Into Transition, Money Goes Into Motion</h3>Financial author Mitch Anthony says it best: “Money goes into motion when life goes into transition.” Whether you’re sending a child off to college, caring for aging parents, or planning a move, each change brings financial decisions with it. Here are five strategies to help us steward these moments well:1. Pray for WisdomEvery new season needs fresh wisdom. You can learn the hard way through pain or the better way through prayer. Proverbs 3:6 reminds us: “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.”2. Seek Godly CounselLearn from those who’ve been there. If you’re sending your first child to college, ask parents of graduates what they’d do differently. Their experience can save you time, money, and stress.3. Plan the Financial Details of the TransitionWith college, for example, have you clarified who will cover living expenses? Will your child work part-time? Will you offer a monthly stipend? Define expectations now to avoid confusion later.4. Prepare for the UnexpectedThings rarely go according to plan. What if your child runs out of money mid-semester? Do you have an emergency fund? Thinking through these “what ifs” now builds resilience.5. Communicate Ahead of TimeGood communication brings clarity and accountability. Whether you’re dealing with a child, a spouse, or a realtor, the earlier you clarify financial expectations, the smoother the transition will be.These five practices are simple but powerful. They’ll help you stay grounded through every kind of life change. And remember, God doesn’t just care about what we go through—He cares about how we go through it. Let’s walk into our next season with prayerful wisdom, godly counsel, and faithful stewardship.<h3>On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:</h3><ul><li>I’m new to investing and want to understand the basics of the stock market, as well as how to avoid scams.</li><li>I’m considering buying precious metals to pass on to my children and grandchildren. What’s the best way for them to sell or redeem them in the future?</li><li>If I give to animal charities, does that count as tithing? Or is tithing meant specifically to support ministries focused on people?</li></ul><h3>Resources Mentioned:</h3><ul><li><a href="https://faithfi.com/give">Faithful Steward: FaithFi’s New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/shop/wisdomoverwealth">Wisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/sparrows">Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and Anxiety</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/rtg">Rich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich Fool</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/find">Find a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/manage">FaithFi App</a></li></ul>
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“The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the folly of fools is deception.” — Proverbs 14:8Today, we’re continuing our series on temperaments—how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman is back with us, joined by Rachel Petty, as we take a closer look at the Green temperament and how it influences our approach to money.Kathleen Edelman is the author of <a href="https://isaidyouheard.com/collections/all">I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication</a>. She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.Rachel Petty is a valued member of Kathleen Edelman’s team and is our Green Temperament representative for this episode. <h3>What Are the Four Temperaments?</h3>The concept of temperaments dates back to Hippocrates, whom Galen followed in naming the four temperaments. Each temperament is a wiring we’re born with—more like eye color than personality—and it shapes how we communicate, relate, and even handle money. The four types are:<ul><li>Yellow (Sanguine): Extrovert, people-oriented; speaks the language of people and fun.</li><li>Red (Choleric): Extrovert, task-oriented; speaks the language of power and control.</li><li>Blue (Melancholic): Introvert, task-oriented; speaks the language of perfection and order.</li><li>Green (Phlegmatic): Introvert, people-oriented; speaks the language of calm and harmony.</li></ul>Temperament is your innate wiring. Personality develops through life experiences, but temperament remains relatively consistent.<h3>Meet the Green: Introverted and People-Oriented</h3>Greens are known as “relationship glue”—calm in chaos, steady in presence, and always people-conscious. They’re inward processors, but also deeply relational.They are drawn to budgeting with others and long-term planning. They don’t like flashy risks or micromanaging. They prefer round numbers and fewer check-ins.Because Greens crave harmony, they might avoid financial conflict or decisions altogether. But with gentle encouragement and time, they become wise and thoughtful stewards.<h3>Strategies That Help</h3>Rachel offers practical tools for those who fall under the Green category or know somebody who does:<ul><li>Stay involved. Greens can sometimes disengage easily. It’s a discipline to speak up.</li><li>Name what matters. Clarifying what’s most important—whether for a trip or a purchase—helps prioritize.</li><li>Set deadlines. It gives them the gentle nudge that action is needed.</li></ul>Greens thrive when respected and heard. Their insights are valuable—they just need time and space to process them fully.However, don’t pressure a Green. Invite them in gently and clearly. They want to contribute—they just need the right environment.<h3>The Innate Needs of a Green</h3>According to Kathleen, Greens have four core needs:<ol><li>Harmony – a peaceful environment.</li><li>Lack of Stress – minimal conflict.</li><li>Feeling of Worth – appreciation for who they are.</li><li>Respect – being asked for their input.</li></ol>When these needs are met, Greens are kind, steady, and confident. When ignored, they may retreat or procrastinate.For those in the Green category, take the time to understand what matters to you and lean into your steady nature. And for those in a relationship with a Green—give them time, space, and encouragement. There’s more going on than you might see.And remember this: if you are a Green, your calm is a gift. Advocate for yourself—peace sometimes requires courage. Your voice matters.<h3>Want More?</h3>If you've found this information valuable, make sure you don’t miss Kathleen’s latest article on temperaments, featured in the newest issue of <a href="https://www.faithfi.com/give">Faithful Steward</a> magazine. This quarterly publication is a special resource we send to our <a href="https://www.faithfi.com/give">FaithFi partners</a>—those who support the ministry at a monthly rate of $35 (or more) or an annual rate of at least $400. To become a partner and receive your copy, along with other exclusive benefits, just visit<a href="https://faithfi.com/give"> FaithFi.com/Give</a>.<h3>On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:</h3><ul><li>My husband and I are both in our second marriage, and we have a blended family. His children are grown and financially independent, while mine are still in college. We have different perspectives on how to manage the assets we each brought into the marriage, and we’re unsure how to align our financial approach moving forward. What would you suggest?</li><li>Is it true that any interest earned from a high-yield savings account must be reported to the federal government for tax purposes?</li></ul><h3>Resources Mentioned:</h3><ul><li><a href="https://faithfi.com/give">Faithful Steward: FaithFi’s New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.isaidyouheard.study/shop">I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication by Kathleen Edelman</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/shop/wisdomoverwealth">Wisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/sparrows">Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and Anxiety</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/rtg">Rich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich Fool</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/find">Find a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/manage">FaithFi App</a></li></ul>
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“The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the folly of fools is deception.” — Proverbs 14:8

Today, we’re continuing our series on temperaments—how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions. Kathleen Edelman is back with us, joined by Rachel Petty, as we take a closer look at the Green temperament and how it influences our approach to money.

Kathleen Edelman is the author of I Said This, You Heard That: How Your Wiring Colors Your Communication. She is certified in Biblical Studies and Christian Counseling Psychology and has spent over 30 years coaching clients in the art of effective communication.

Rachel Petty is a valued member of Kathleen Edelman’s team and is our Green Temperament representative for this episode.

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Getting fit takes willpower. Earning a degree takes determination. Reaching your career goals takes hard work. In short, success takes commitment.And the same is true when it comes to your finances. Today, we’ll explore what changes when you commit to managing money God’s way.You’ve heard the saying, “Things worth doing are worth doing well.” And when it comes to your finances, there are certainly some things worth doing—like saving for the future, creating a spending plan, paying down debt, giving generously, and living with honesty and integrity.If you want to see real results in any area of life, it’s going to take effort—sometimes a lot of it. And that’s true for your financial life, too. Following biblical financial principles takes determination, planning, patience, and even sacrifice. So, why is it worth the effort?Because while commitment requires something of us, it also gives something to us. When we live with faith and integrity in our finances, we experience peace, contentment, and even joy. It’s not just about doing the right thing—it’s about being transformed more and more into who God wants us to be.<h3>Joining God in His Work</h3>When you honor Him with your finances, you join in His work, bringing mercy and blessing to others. And as you experience His provision personally, your faith deepens, and your story becomes a testimony to encourage others.The Bible is filled with examples of faithful commitment. Hebrews chapter 11 is sometimes called the “Hall of Faith” because it highlights men and women who trusted God, even when they couldn’t see the outcome. Abraham, Moses, Rahab—they placed their hope in God’s promises before Christ ever came.But the ultimate example of commitment is Jesus Himself. Hebrews 12:2 says:“For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”A Savior who gave everything to redeem us is more than worthy of our full devotion in return.Faith lies at the heart of such a commitment, especially when it comes to finances. Hebrews 11:1 defines faith as:“Confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”That means trusting God’s promises, even when circumstances feel uncertain.<h3>Who’s Really in Charge?</h3>So, committing to manage money God’s way starts with faith, but it also requires surrender. That means asking: who’s really in charge—me, or the Lord?In Matthew 6:24, Jesus says:“No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”That’s a heavy reminder for all of us. We can’t be fully committed to both God and money. One will always take priority, and when it’s not the Lord, we will feel that tension.Here are a few honest questions to consider:<ul><li>Do financial worries consume your thoughts?</li><li>Do you find yourself chasing more and more money, more stuff, more status?</li><li>Is your sense of security tied to your job or investments?</li></ul>If you answered yes to any of those, you’re not alone. Many of us wrestle with divided hearts. It’s easy to lean on what we can see, especially when life feels uncertain. But money, career, or comfort can never offer the lasting peace only God provides.Choosing to follow God’s financial principles takes daily trust and perseverance. Galatians 6:9 offers this encouragement:“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”Another gift of commitment is the encouragement we receive from God’s people. You weren’t meant to follow Jesus—or manage your finances—on your own.Colossians 3:12–15 paints a powerful picture of Christian community:“As God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience… Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace.”If you’ve ever felt like giving up on your budget or putting off your giving goals, you’re not alone—we all face struggles. But if everything were easy, we’d never grow stronger.<h3>Walking With You</h3>That’s why we’re here at <a href="https://www.faithfi.com/">FaithFi</a>—to walk alongside you. Whether you’re just starting out or have walked this path for a long time, we want to offer help rooted in grace, wisdom, and truth.Most of all, we want you to experience the joy of following Jesus with every part of your life, including your finances. Because true freedom doesn’t come from having more—it comes from trusting the One who gave everything for you.<h3>On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:</h3><ul><li>I turned 65 in March and am now eligible for Medicare; however, I remain employed and have employer-sponsored health insurance that includes an HSA, which I continue to contribute to. I’ve received conflicting information—can I delay Medicare enrollment and still have both my employer and I contribute to my HSA?</li><li>I’m a 73-year-old widow and have been retired since 2017. When I retired, I rolled my 401(k) into an IRA, and that money is currently sitting in a Fidelity money market account. I also have an emergency fund with about $50,000. Given my situation, what would you recommend I do?</li><li>I’m a recent immigrant to the U.S. and travel frequently to visit family abroad, which has led to long employment gaps. Even though I have an excellent credit score, I’m having trouble getting approved for housing because landlords and lenders want to see consistent income. Is there a way to circumvent this challenge?</li></ul><h3>Resources Mentioned:</h3><ul><li><a href="https://faithfi.com/give">Faithful Steward: FaithFi’s New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)</a></li><li><a href="https://movement.com/faith?_branch_match_id=1461440077146990110&amp;utm_medium=faithfi&amp;_branch_referrer=H4sIAAAAAAAAA8soKSkottLXL8ozMsnWSywo0MvJzMvWz80vS81NzSuxrytKTUstKsrMS49PKsovL04tsnXOKMrPTQUAaZFz8zkAAAA%3D">Movement Mortgage</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/shop/wisdomoverwealth">Wisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/sparrows">Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and Anxiety</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/rtg">Rich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich Fool</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/find">Find a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/manage">FaithFi App</a></li></ul>
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Getting fit takes willpower. Earning a degree takes determination. Reaching your career goals takes hard work. In short, success takes commitment.

And the same is true when it comes to your finances. Today, we’ll explore what changes when you commit to managing money God’s way.

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“He who has ears, let him hear.” – Matthew 13:9Those were Jesus’ closing words after telling the Parable of the Sower—a story that invites us to listen carefully, not just with our ears, but with our hearts. Today, we’ll look at this story and what it reveals about the heart behind our finances, especially the warning about “the deceitfulness of riches”.<h3>The Parable of the Sower and the State of Our Hearts</h3>The Parable of the Sower appears in Matthew 13, Mark 4, and Luke 8. It begins with a farmer scattering seed, which falls on four types of soil. Jesus later explains that the seed is the Word of God, and the soils represent different heart conditions. Some hearts are hard, others shallow. Some are fertile and ready. But one soil in particular draws our attention today: the seed that fell among thorns.In Matthew 13:22, Jesus says,“As for what was sown among thorns, this is the one who hears the word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word, and it proves unfruitful.”<h3>Understanding the Thorns: Worry and Wealth</h3>Let’s break that down.First, Jesus points to "the cares of the world"—the daily anxieties and distractions that can crowd out our trust in God. Then, He adds “the deceitfulness of riches.” It’s not wealth itself that’s the issue. It’s the lie wealth tells: that more money will bring more peace, that possessions equal security, and that success means significance.The Bible consistently warns us about that lie:<ul><li>Proverbs 11:28 — “Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf.”  </li><li>1 Timothy 6:17 — “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God.”</li></ul>Wealth deceives us by offering the illusion of control and independence. It tempts us to believe we’re self-sufficient. And when we buy that lie, we slowly stop depending on God. Like thorns in a garden, worldly cares and the lure of wealth take root in our hearts, slowly crowding out our affection for God. The space once reserved for trust and obedience becomes overrun with distraction and self-reliance.As C.S. Lewis put it:“Prosperity knits a man to the world. He feels that he is 'finding his place in it,' while really it is finding its place in him.”<h3>Time for a Heart Check</h3>You might be saving diligently, investing wisely, and even giving regularly. But if you’re trusting in your portfolio more than God’s promises—or if your finances have become a source of anxiety—then it may be time to do a heart check. What kind of soil are you cultivating?When unexpected expenses hit, what comes first—prayer or panic? When you think about the future, is your hope grounded in your retirement account or in the One who holds all things together?Jesus said the seed among thorns becomes “unfruitful.” The Word doesn’t lose its power, but when wealth and worry take over our hearts, we stop responding to it. Outwardly, we may look faithful, but inwardly, our love for Him is being choked out. So, how do we respond?Jesus points to the solution just a few verses later. In Matthew 13:23, He says:“The good soil is the one who hears the word and understands it; he indeed bears fruit and yields.”Receiving God’s Word deeply isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong process of cultivating the soil of our hearts. It means creating space where God’s truth can take root, thrive, and grow, without being overtaken by competing desires.<h3>Three Practices to Cultivate “Good Soil”</h3><ol><li>Prioritize Your Giving—Start with generosity, not as an afterthought, but as an act of worship. Giving reminds us that money is not our master and that we trust God to provide for us.  </li><li>Check Your Emotional Temperature—If your peace rises and falls with your financial circumstances, that’s a signal to lean into God’s Word more than your wallet.  </li><li>Rethink Your Financial Goals—Ask Yourself: What Am I Building? And why? Is your financial plan aligned with Kingdom purposes, or is it just chasing comfort or status?</li></ol>As Dallas Willard said, “The main thing God gets out of your life is the person you become.” That includes how you handle money. Generosity, peace, and contentment are fruits of a life rooted in Christ, not one choked out by wealth.<h3>What Are You Trusting In?</h3>Remember that the condition of your heart matters more than the condition of your accounts. If you want to be fruitful in your finances and faithful in your walk with God, start by asking: What am I trusting in?Let the answer lead you back to Christ, because only in Him will your life bear lasting fruit.<h3>On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:</h3><ul><li>I own a two-flat apartment building valued at around $650,000. We’ve received an offer and are considering buying another building listed at $640,000 in a different area. Since I’ve never sold a property before, I’d like to understand the full costs involved in selling my current one and purchasing a new one.</li><li>I recently learned that one of the index funds I invest in holds companies involved in things I don’t ethically support. As someone trying to invest according to my values, is it wrong to stay in that fund?</li><li>I have an IRA that’s set up as an annuity, but I’m not sure what the advantages are. Is there a real benefit to holding an annuity within an IRA, or would I be better off moving it into a different type of investment?</li><li>I’ve had a sealed monster box of Silver Eagle coins for a while now. Should I hold onto it, or would it be smarter to sell them and reinvest the money elsewhere?</li></ul><h3>Resources Mentioned:</h3><ul><li><a href="https://faithfi.com/give">Faithful Steward: FaithFi’s New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/shop/wisdomoverwealth">Wisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/sparrows">Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and Anxiety</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/rtg">Rich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich Fool</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/find">Find a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.faithfi.com/manage">FaithFi App</a></li></ul>
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“He who has ears, let him hear.” – Matthew 13:9

Those were Jesus’ closing words after telling the Parable of the Sower—a story that invites us to listen carefully, not just with our ears, but with our hearts. Today, we’ll look at this story and what it reveals about the heart behind our finances, especially the warning about “the deceitfulness of riches”.

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