__I serve on a medical missions board pro-bono. I confess that I am useless with medical terminology since I am not a medical doctor. Oh, well! I like serving with medical doctors because I love what they do and who they serve (and hey, it helps that they meet in great places that have great fishing!).__

A dermatologist who serves on that board with me has become a great friend and fishing partner. A few years ago, after a day of lobster fishing, with him and one of his dermatologist friends, his friend dropped by my beach cottage unexpectedly. He wanted to know what I really do in ministry. Now mind you, I had told him multiple times! But now that I had his attention, I walked him through what Financial Planning Ministry (FPM) does. “We create end-of-life documents (wills and living trusts) that will help people take care of their families in a way that honors God.”

He was impressed to learn we have served 46,000+ families with $2.4 billion in expectancies in estate plans to fund God’s kingdom here on earth. He understood this, but then, with a perplexed look on his face, he stopped me and said, “I have a question.”

He explained that he was selling his medical practice and had just set up his estate plan. The lawyer and CPA that helped him had attended the same church as he for decades. Together, they served in the nursery, picked up trash in the parking lot, took care of the building, attended weekend services, worshiped together, etc.  Frustrated and confused, He asked: “Why? Why did neither of those experts encourage me to give to my church in my estate plan? Of course, I would give to my church in my estate plan!”

At this point, I understood why he was perplexed. Unfortunately, I had no answer. What’s even more startling; this is all too common. It’s one thing for a non-Christian estate planner not to suggest considering your church and non-profit ministries that you care about, but this man was a Christian, a friend, and attended the same church. Now, this is not a criticism of him.  It’s just a mindset that needs to be changed. And, as I said previously, this is all too common! But it doesn’t have to be this way!

With the help of my friend, Donna Nicholson Stief (LCBC), below is a listing of __*seven compelling reasons to consider offering an estate planning ministry to your church members*__ so that this same story does not happen to them.

__1. Disciple Your Members: Help Christian Stewards become more like the “Image of God” that we were created.__

We are created in the image of God. And God’s generosity to us cannot be outdone. Since we are in His image, His desire is that we are also generous. Generosity is not just what we “do,” but rather, who we “are.” Ministers/Churches are intentional to provide structure for Christians to become more like God. The church disciples believers to steward their lives in a way that honors God, becoming more like Jesus, and live a life that is reflective of the image of their Heavenly Father.

Biblical stewardship and generosity transform the heart. God blesses our faith and trust when His children become generous people. By God’s design, His children are to be conduits of the generosity He’s given to us: to pour into others and advance the Kingdom. Think about it - God desires for His children to live open-handedly: to tithe, to give, and to be a conduit of His generosity.

Churches disciple their members to do that while they are living on this earth. But what they tend to forget is that a member’s last act of stewardship should actually be decided [now](now), while of sound mind, and then executed after their passing. What a noble task when the church offers a ministry that helps its members prepare their final act of stewardship, so they can be generous, becoming more like the “Image of God.” This becomes a wise act of stewardship on the part of the church as well.

__2. It’s a Ministry: Serve families now. One day, it *will* be too late.__

Churches are experts at serving and caring for their members, especially when it comes to funerals and ongoing grief care. Where many churches tend to fall short is by not helping them long before the funeral ever happens in the first place. End-of-life will eventually happen; however, end-of-life preparation should happen [now](now).

Most people, including your church members, are unfortunately clueless about the estate planning process, and a startling 64% of Americans do not have their end-of-life plans established. When end-of-life documents have not been established, the state and local governments take over, making decisions that the family member should have made while they were still alive on earth. This leaves the family helpless, and therefore the church is helpless in assisting them. It does not have to be this way!

The good news is, rather than having your hands tied, unable to help the family, the church has a unique opportunity to be proactive, saving the grieving family from even more trouble, stress, and costs. So, let’s be proactive! Serve them. Help them get ready for when the time comes for them to leave this earth. Serving your members this way is a ministry. It’s a ministry that gives you the unique opportunity to help your members to be prepared and avoid the mess that comes along with not having their affairs in order.

Providing a way for your members to obtain end-of-life documents allows them to decide now how they want their family, church, and other ministries they love to be cared for after they pass away. They can take comfort in knowing you provided a way for them to develop written documents that will guide their family and leave the government out of it. End-of-life documents are the core documents that everyone needs, as well as other accompanying documents that are equally as critical, including Power of Attorney, Guardianship of minor children, Health Care Directives, and more.

The Apostle Paul said in 1 Timothy 6:7, We all know that we came into this world with nothing. We will leave this world with nothing. We can’t take our assets with us to Heaven, but with the right end-of-life documents, attendees can decide to “send it on ahead” and take care of their family, church, and ministry partners as they wish. Churches serve families.

All families need this. And the good news is that when the church disciples others and offers a way to steward what they have been given by God, then generosity follows. Generosity is simply an outcome. It’s a byproduct of those who love the Lord! To be perfectly clear, the motive is to disciple our members to be more Christ-like and serve them by providing an opportunity to take care of their loved ones and to store up treasure in Heaven. This is a ministry, not a fundraiser.

__3. Offer Peace: Without a plan, grieving is hijacked by divisiveness.__

At the time of death, families are overwhelmed and in pain. Without a plan, it will likely be a time of contention, leaving no peace for the family. Grieving is a natural God-given response to loss; however, without a plan, healthy grieving gets put on the back burner, as there is sure to be a mess, adding unnecessary stress, costs, and disagreements between family members.

Family members have their own varying ideas of what should be done with what has been left behind. And while the deceased may be a Christian, it’s likely there are family members who are not. Even those that are Christian likely have differing ideas on what should be done at the time of their loved one’s death.

We, as pastors, have seen more family arguments over “stuff” than we care to admit, and it all could have been avoided. Instead of grieving their loss, divisiveness and arguments often hijack their grief and divide the family with painful wounds. If minor children are involved, families can become split apart and not recover. This happens because the person who should have made the decisions is unfortunately no longer here. Also, without a plan, families will face Probate through their local government. This is costly, and the government pays for itself through the estate funds of the deceased.

Probate takes time, creates a loss of privacy, and delays families in receiving what is left of their inheritance. Sometimes it can take years! The cost of probate could have been avoided and, instead, could have been useful funds for the families and to advance the Kingdom. Help families avoid inner family fighting over “stuff” (and/or minor children!) and avoid unnecessary delays and costs so that years after passing, the family is still speaking to each other.

__4. Everyone Needs a Plan! Correct the myth: “I do not need a will because I don’t have much.”__

There are common myths out there that prevent people from establishing their end-of-life documents. Some think that because they are not wealthy, they don’t need these documents, not realizing it has little to do with wealth. Everyone needs a plan! Whether one has a little or a lot is not the issue.

A woman came to our educational event, unmistakably annoyed, and announced to everyone in the fellowship hall at the church, “I do not know why I am here. I do not have an estate. But the pastor told me to come, so I am here.” How do you respond to that? You just thanked her for being here and trusted God would answer her question through the presentation.

What a delight when during the presentation, at the time when the probate threshold was explained, she interrupted and exclaimed, “Well, I guess I do have an estate.” God indeed showed her why the pastor asked her to attend the seminar. The truth is, even if you own the most modest of homes, or even if you rent, you have enough stuff. And establishing end-of-life documents also includes critical documents such as Power of Attorney, medical directives, and guardianship of minor children. As we said: Everyone needs a plan.

__5. Offer a Pathway for Generosity: Create an opportunity to be more generous than ever as a disciple of Christ.__

It is a pleasure to watch someone realize just how generous they can be. Most people leave a percentage to their church. It is fun to see the smile and astonished look on someone’s face when they realize what 10 % of their net assets value is. And they realize there is still plenty they will be leaving for their children. Often, we hear, “Wow, I can give that much!” What a privilege it is as a Christ follower to help Christians discover they have the option to be the most generous they’ve ever been in their lifetime through their end-of-life estate documents.

Mature believers understand biblical stewardship, yet, even still, when they discover what they are able to give, it is a “God” moment. They realize they can ‘excel in the grace of giving.” (2 Corinthians 8:7). The church teaches the “why” for generosity. FPM teaches the “how.”

Here’s a statistic you should know: 2.74. Research conducted on IRS documents reveals that a person’s estate gift is 2.74 times their [cumulative](cumulative) lifetime giving. Another statistic you should know is 50%. When believers include your church in their end-of-life documents, most researchers tell us that their giving over the rest of their life will double. (If you would like to track this in your church, please reach out to: [Clay@FPM.org](mailto:Clay@FPM.org))

__6. Meet a Felt Need:  Create a Win/Win for the family.__

Pastors have a heart that is always looking for that win-win scenario. By establishing an educational ministry in end-of-life document planning, you will have a win-win. A testimonial from one church attendee wrote: “I am so thankful that my church offers this. I really needed to do this!” This meets a real felt need that your members have.

Most people know they should have end-of-life documents, yet 64% of Americans do not have one. Why? Why would something that is so important, knowing death is inevitable, prevent people from establishing their end-of-life documents? The most common reasons we’ve heard for over 40 years are: “It’s too complicated. I don’t understand all of this” and “It’s too costly. I can’t afford to do this right now.” And lastly, “I’ll get around to it one day.”

It’s common thinking that we will all live to see another day, yet we know there is no guarantee that tomorrow will come. When this is the common mindset, end-of-life planning is very easy to put off. You are giving an invitation, opportunity, and a method for members to get it done while removing the barriers mentioned previously that have thus far prevented them from doing it.

Through church partnership, FPM removes the cost barrier for your members (making this a true ministry) while taking the complexity out of the planning process by educating your members in simple terms.  Your members will understand what they need to know in order to make wise decisions for their families and will have a clear pathway to accomplish their end-of-life documents.

__7. Win/Win for the Church: Pastors love to hear this!__

We love it when our Partner church members express their gratitude for being served so well. Over 96% of FPM’s survey responses from members are very positive. While it’s common these days for people to tend to be quick to write a bad review, this is not the case with churches that offer FPM’s ministry. FPM serves your church with excellence through education, love, and care. Your members love and appreciate you for offering them a ministry that cares for them.

Here are real testimonials from members and partners we have served:

[Member:](Member) “Very  trustworthy and beyond professional. FPM won our trust, and we are very grateful for the staff treating us with love and grace. You answered our questions promptly and completely. God bless your staff and organization.”

[Partner](Partner) (church staff): “FPM has become a trusted partner in ministry. They are a huge blessing to our ministry and church family.”

__Conclusion:__

There are many more reasons to offer this ministry, but there’s one [final consideration](final) to contemplate: FPM’s ministry is unique because it serves the [entire](entire) church body; the rich and the poor, the young and the old, and everyone in between.

Many churches serve well those who are struggling financially by offering much-needed classes to help steward their finances biblically as well as caring for them through benevolence programs. They have a process in place for the struggling. Likewise, many churches also see the value of caring for the high-net-worth members who have just as much of a need for spiritual discipleship as anyone else. Yes, they can help fund large ministry projects. This is welcomed and needed! And appreciation is deeply and intentionally expressed to them by the church.

There’s one other category, though. Can I challenge you today?  What are you doing for everyone else in between? Sometimes it is assumed that the middle group, which is usually the largest group, is doing “okay.” There may be some great ways to engage the middle group in your church, including financial classes. But oftentimes, there’s nothing really “special” that can be offered to them like you can for the very rich and the very poor.

If you’d like to offer a special ministry that is a fit for your entire congregation, regardless of where they stand financially or spiritually, the ministry of FPM might be your answer. Rich, poor, or somewhere in the middle, we will all one day pass from this earth. FPM has a ministry to serve your entire church (including your staff and elders).

To learn more about how Financial Planning Ministry (FPM) might be a fit for your church, [Click Here](https://www.fpm.org/), and please feel welcome to reach out any time. May God grant you wisdom as you look for ways to serve your church well.

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