Why We Give: Finding Freedom from Self-Righteousness

Have you ever felt a quiet sense of pride after giving, like you were just a little more faithful than others?

It’s a subtle temptation, but one we must take seriously. When our giving becomes a way to elevate ourselves rather than glorify God, we’ve missed the heart of generosity—and possibly much more.

When Giving Becomes About Us

Jesus addressed this in Luke 18:

The tithing, fasting Pharisee was not justified—not because his actions were wrong, but because he trusted in himself.

The Heart Check

Religious acts, even impressive ones, can’t save us. When we give to make ourselves look good, we risk trusting in our performance rather than Christ’s finished work.

There’s nothing wrong with joy in giving—God loves a cheerful giver. But when joy turns to superiority, we’ve crossed the line. As Deuteronomy 8 reminds us:

Everything we have—even the ability to give—comes from Him.

Giving That Glorifies God

Jesus warns in Matthew 6 not to give for the sake of being noticed. True generosity is humble, often quiet, and motivated by gratitude. It’s giving that reflects Christ, not ourselves.