It’s Not About The Money

The Bible contains more than 2,300 verses related to money and possessions—a staggering number. But it’s not because money is the most important topic. Rather, it’s because money is one of the most accurate indicators of what’s going on in our hearts.

If you explore this subject, you’ll find stats like “1 out of every 7 verses in which Jesus speaks involves money,” or “11 of His 39 parables are about money.” While I’m not sure if those stats are accurate, it is true that Jesus mentions money a lot. However, His teaching is rarely about money itself. It’s always about something bigger, looming in the background.

From personal stress to relationship breakdowns, money often acts like a magnifying glass. It brings underlying values to the surface. For example, in marriage, financial tension is often less about dollar amounts and more about differences in values, such as security versus spontaneity, generosity versus comfort, and planning versus pleasure.

Every Financial Decision Is a Spiritual One

In marriages and relationships, conflicting values around money are common, and they’re not necessarily wrong. One spouse may dream of traveling to create family memories, while the other may want to boost their retirement savings. Both can honor God. The key is discovering common ground and inviting God into the conversation.