Family memories take on special meaning at this time of year when we gather for the holidays. One of the best memories you can make involves giving. We’ll talk about that today with Becky Cullum. Becky Cullum is Executive Vice President of the National Christian Foundation in North Texas. Becky has a passion for helping individuals and families create giving strategies so they can be more generous.
On this program, Callum shares how generosity came to be so important to her and her family.
She discusses the challenges of raising kids who are outwardly focused in a materialistic society in which anything they want is available at the click of a button. Parents often feel overwhelmed and outnumbered.
Callum shares the Scriptures that inspired her to take on this challenge:
Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it”
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your heart. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”
2 cor 5:141: For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
While we must verbally convey God’s truth to our children, Callum says most human communication is non-verbal. Children learn from what is modeled, not just said.
Parenting is always a work in progress. We will never “arrive” as parents. It’s a constant journey of trial and error. She suggests seeking wise counsel. Talk to older, wiser parents. And she recommends the book The Opposite of Spoiled by Ron Lieber.
Through the holidays and beyond, make generosity a family affair. Each Christmas, the Callums give their kids cash, but with a stipulation: They have to give it away. It’s then up to the kids to find the people and causes they want to support.
What does Jesus want for His birthday? And a grateful and generous heart!
On this program, Rob also answers listener questions:
What is the best way to prepare for medical expenses related to the birth of a child?
Would it make sense to take out a home equity loan or sell your home to pay off debt?
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