Am I Giving For The Right Reasons?

When the topic of generosity comes up in church, reactions can be mixed. Some tune out, assuming the message is about funding a project or filling a financial gap. But generosity is about much more than meeting needs—it’s about the heart behind the act. Let’s explore not only why we should give but also why we shouldn’t and how to cultivate a heart for biblical generosity.

Why We Shouldn’t Give

1. Guilt Shouldn’t Be Your Motivation

Many Christians have been influenced by guilt-driven messages, from legalism to the prosperity gospel. These teachings suggest that not giving enough equates to stealing from God or forfeiting His blessings. However, the Bible paints a different picture.

It’s also crucial to distinguish between guilt and conviction. Guilt comes from the enemy and leads us away from Christ, while conviction comes from the Holy Spirit, drawing us closer to God. Hebrews 10:22 reassures us that, through Christ’s sacrifice, we are freed from guilt. If guilt drives your giving, pause and prayerfully examine your heart.

2. Giving to Control the Church

Sometimes, people give to influence church decisions, designating funds to specific ministries or withholding support to express disagreement with leadership. This approach can sow division and turn generosity into a transaction.

Giving with strings attached undermines the act of worship and reflects a lack of trust in God’s sovereignty. As stewards of God’s resources, we are called to support His work, even when we don’t agree with every decision.

3. Seeking Self-Righteousness Through Giving

Generosity should not be a means to feel morally superior. In Luke 18:11-12, Jesus shares the Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector. The Pharisee flaunted his giving to showcase his righteousness, while the tax collector humbly sought God’s mercy.

Faithful giving is a response to God’s grace, not a way to earn recognition or status. If pride motivates your generosity, it’s time to reassess your heart.